Written by: Barbara Ann Hall
I thought
I heard my name whispered in my ear,
“B a r b a r a,” sending chills down my spine! It was violently windy
there in the cemetery causing the branches of the trees to tremble and my hair to whip against my face. “It was probably
just a whistle on the wind,” I thought.
I wasn’t in the cemetery to visit anyone in specific. I just
enjoyed walking through and wondering about the people buried there. Who they were, what their lives were like, and if anyone
still visited them.
Often I would choose a grave that looked as though it was no longer visited and clear away
the overgrowth from around the stone. Then I would clean and polish it and leave a bright bunch of flowers to cheer the restored
resting place.
As I slowly walked from headstone to headstone, I noticed the slight edge of one peeking out
from beneath a large patch of overgrown thickets. “Ouch!” I thought to myself. “Do I really want to tackle
that one?” I knew myself too well to even think I could just walk away, so I sat down, tied my hair off my face, laid
the bouquet of daisies I’d brought gently in the grass beside me and pulled a pair of garden gloves and scissors from
my handbag. I always brought them for just that purpose.
Carefully I began to snip at the thorns. That’s
when I heard it again,
“B a r b a r a,” whispered ever so softly in my ear, again sending chills down
my spine! I sat paralyzed for a moment or so before I once again considered it to be only the wind.
With a few
more snips, I was able to pull the thicket bush away from the stone. Then I worked at pulling back the weeds until all four
edges were clear. With that done, I was able to start brushing off the imbedded dirt from the stones surface.
When
all was finally cleared away, I noticed that the engraving was very well worn. All I could vaguely make out, as I traced my
fingers over the name, was Stanley H. The only other carvings on the stone were that of two dates, but only the second of
1806 was recognizable. “I bet you haven’t had anyone bring you flowers for many years, Stanley H.” I said
out loud as I poured water into his cup and added the daisies.
As I sat there polishing the stone, I wondered
about Stanley. “Who are you Stanley H?” I whispered out loud. “What was your life like?” When
I looked up, a young girl had come to visit the grave next to Stanley’s. When she noticed me sitting there, she said,
“Hello, I’m Heather and this here is my grandmother, Becky,” pointing down to the beautiful headstone
in front of her. “Nice to meet you Heather, I’m Barbara and this here is Stanley.” I said smiling at her.
“I never noticed him before,” Heather said with a puzzled look on her face. “That’s because
his stone was covered over with thickets. I just finished clearing them away.” I told her. “Ah yes, I remember
them now. I never realized there was a stone there.” Then she looked at me with a sad look in her eyes, “I’m
sorry,” she apologized, “had I realized he was there, I would have cleared the stone myself. Is he a relative
of yours?” “No. I just met him here today.” I answered, not quite thinking of how that probably sounded. Heather
just looked at me.
I explained to her that sometimes I just enjoyed visiting graves that looked as though no one
visited any more. “Me too!” she exclaimed. “This over here is Leonard,” she said pointing to the grave
right of her Grandmother’s, “and there next to him is Russell. I often bring them flowers. Gram has always been
such a blessing to her neighbors and I believe that is what she would want me to do.”
Walking just a few
graves over, Heather stopped at a grave and said, as she added water to the flower cup, “This man has no name on
his stone. It only reads; son, husband and father. I bring him flowers every time I come to visit Gram. It helps me feel better
about no one thinking enough of him to have his name added to his stone.”
“Perhaps the person who buried
him did not know his name, or perhaps chose not to put it there for a reason,” I said. “How sad, why would anyone
choose not to?” she asked with tears in her eyes. “Maybe they wanted to keep his name a mystery. By showing only
son, husband and father, we don’t know exactly who’s buried there because he could be any one of millions of people
that fit that description. His identity will remain forever concealed to those who didn’t know him, but to those who
did, I’m sure knew his name.” I tried my best to comfort Heather, but it hadn’t quite worked, so I continued
my effort. “Just like all who know you, know your name is Heather. If you were one day buried with only what you were
written on your gravestone; daughter and granddaughter, for instance, to those who knew you would still know your name was Heather
and to all who didn’t know you would never know your name, but that still wouldn’t change who you were.”
After she thought about that for a moment she said, “You’re right. It wouldn’t change who I
was. I guess I never really thought much about it before, but there is such significance in a person’s name. It’s
the one thing that gives us our individual identity within the world. But, even when people don’t recognize us by our
name, it still doesn’t change who we are!”
When she said that, something flooded my heart. “Think
how God must feel when people don’t know Him.” I said. “He has who He is; Father, Son and Holy Ghost, written
for the world to see, and to those who know Him, know His name, but to those who don’t know Him, know not His name.”
I continued, “It’s like when Jesus asked Peter if he knew who He was, and Peter responded you are the
Christ, the Son of the living God. And Jesus’ response was, “and you are Peter, and upon this rock I build my
church”.
Heather's face lit up when I said that and she exclaimed an “Amen!” Then she said,
quite seriously, “The revelation is in the name. There is no other name under heaven by which one must be saved. I see
it so clearly now. Upon Peter’s recognition of who Jesus was, came the revelation and the truth that Jesus built His
church upon! We must know Him and He must also know us! He stressed the importance of His name when he told Peter, “and
you are Peter”.
Heather and I were so uplifted by her revelation that joy filled our hearts! Together
we praised God and glorified his name. Before saying our goodbyes, we agreed to meet there again the next afternoon, each
with a bouquet of flowers, our garden gloves and scissors, and an abundance of praise on our tongues.
I gathered
my things and said goodbye to Stanley. Then, with a special love in my heart, I walked over to the grave of the son, husband
and father and added one of Stanley’s daisies to his flower cup. That’s when I heard it again, my name whispered
upon the wind, “B a r b a r a”. But this time, I was quick to respond, “Here am I Lord, and you are Jesus!”

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